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I feel like my girlfriend is cheating on me?

Post by Mark on Sat Jul 29, 2017 3:18 pm

My girlfriend and I have been dating for around seven months, and now I have this uneasy feeling that she is cheating on me. Around a month ago, I picked up her phone because it was buzzing like crazy on the kitchen table. Come to find out it was her ex-boyfriend blowing up her phone. When I confronted her about it, she told me not to worry about it and that she would block his number immediately. Soon after that encounter I hadn't seen his number or heard much about it since. However, the provoke my uneasiness, she regularly shoes out with "her friends" and goes to outings a lot more than unusual. I never met her friends and she never asks me to tag along with her, so it really makes me question who she goes and sees. I've thought about questioning her about this, but I'm sure that would start conflict, and that wouldn't resolve anything. To this day I haven't seen any texts from the ex but I haven't went through her social media or emails.
Any advice? pale

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Post by Cassandra on Sat Jul 29, 2017 3:21 pm

to me it seems like you have some really big trust issues. you're wondering if your girlfriend is really going out with her girlfriends or maintaining a connection with her ex-boyfriend? seriously? your type of thinking is what contributes to relationships falling apart. you have to trust her and if all of this is a really big deal just sit down and have a talk with her about how you have been feeling. worrying and keeping your feelings to yourself isnt going to make it better
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Post by Jimmy on Sat Jul 29, 2017 3:25 pm

easy, break up wit her. Smile
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Post by Voltage on Sat Jul 29, 2017 3:27 pm

@Jimmy wrote:easy, break up wit her. Smile
Shut up. No. Just talk to her first and see what happens. Maybe she will take you along on one of your hangouts. Maybe being surrounded by girls the whole day will be punishment enough for thinking she does otherwise.
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Post by Kyle on Sat Jul 29, 2017 3:30 pm

@Jimmy wrote:easy, break up wit her. Smile
Lmaoooo im weak as hell. I agree with @Cassandra though, you just need to have a talk with her. no reason to lose a good girl because you couldnt stop thinking negative
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Post by iPheo on Sat Jul 29, 2017 3:31 pm

well, first things first. how good looking is she?

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Post by test on Sat Jul 29, 2017 3:32 pm

@iPheo wrote:well, first things first. how good looking is she?
ikr, pics? Question Neutral scratch
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Re: I feel like my girlfriend is cheating on me?

Post by Donald on Sat Jul 29, 2017 3:59 pm

I was in the same situation as you before. All you can do is hope for the best and believe that your girlfriend isn't cheating on you. In the end, if she really wanted to cheat on you, she would. In my case, she actually was. However, you know just as well as I do that every case is different.
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Post by Simuel on Sat Jul 29, 2017 4:00 pm

@Mark wrote:My girlfriend and I have been dating for around seven months, and now I have this uneasy feeling that she is cheating on me. Around a month ago, I picked up her phone because it was buzzing like crazy on the kitchen table. Come to find out it was her ex-boyfriend blowing up her phone. When I confronted her about it, she told me not to worry about it and that she would block his number immediately. Soon after that encounter I hadn't seen his number or heard much about it since. However, the provoke my uneasiness, she regularly shoes out with "her friends" and goes to outings a lot more than unusual. I never met her friends and she never asks me to tag along with her, so it really makes me question who she goes and sees. I've thought about questioning her about this, but I'm sure that would start conflict, and that wouldn't resolve anything. To this day I haven't seen any texts from the ex but I haven't went through her social media or emails.
Any advice? pale
You're already getting a weird vibe. I'd leave her tbh.
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Re: I feel like my girlfriend is cheating on me?

Post by Janet on Sat Jul 29, 2017 4:02 pm

Half the guys on here are assholes. If I were the OP's girlfriend I would be superbly pissed to find out he went to a forum seeking advice instead of TALKING TO ME. -1
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Post by xJDog on Sat Jul 29, 2017 4:03 pm

oh lord, the bitches are coming out. ^_^
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Post by Rachel on Sat Jul 29, 2017 4:08 pm

@xJDog wrote:oh lord, the bitches are coming out. ^_^
fucking lame. As for the post, do not listen to these guys. They are just miserable little pricks who don't have a girl of their own and are jealous. Talk to her, be comforting, and state your feelings. she will understand. you're not crazy for feeling the way that you do, but if you keep holding back instead of engaging in conversation you will become crazy. <3 much love to you and your girlfriend
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